Authentic Facade

One of the saddest things a client said to me recenty is that he has learned how to put on an authentic facade. 

It used to be his superpower. 
He listened to people. Intently.

People felt heard and valued by him.  

Then the to-do list grew. Then he had more people reporting to him. Then every encounter fet like an intrusion and an interruption. 

He is one of the lucky ones though. He knows it is a facade. He doesn't like it. 

He is working on saying no to things that don't need his attention. He is working on constructive self-talk:

Be Here Now

This conversation can make a difference

Who knows what will be possible if I can make a real connection?

How about you?

What is the facade you have erected?